Navigating Healthy vs. Unhealthy Conflict in the Workplace

Navigating Healthy vs. Unhealthy Conflict in the Workplace

24 September 2024

Conflict is an inevitable part of any team environment. When managed well, it can drive growth, innovation, and collaboration. Alternatively, when handled poorly or left unresolved, conflict can spiral into a destructive force that undermines trust and productivity.

So, how can leaders distinguish between healthy and unhealthy conflict in the workplace? More importantly, how can they create an environment where disagreements lead to progress, rather than tension?

Understanding Healthy Conflict

Healthy conflict occurs when team members engage in open, respectful discussions around differing viewpoints. It is not about personal attacks but rather challenging ideas in a way that encourages learning and collaboration. This type of conflict can spark innovation, push boundaries, and lead to better decision-making.

In a workplace that fosters healthy conflict:

  • Ideas are debated openly and constructively, with a focus on finding the best solution.
  • Trust is maintained because the conflict revolves around ideas, not personalities.
  • Collaboration thrives, as diverse perspectives are encouraged and explored.

Research from the Centre for Creative Leadership highlights that teams who engage in healthy conflict tend to make decisions faster and more efficiently. Their willingness to challenge the status quo often leads to breakthrough solutions.

Spotting Unhealthy Conflict

On the other hand, unhealthy conflicts are often personal, emotional, and unresolved. It stems from a lack of trust, poor communication, or unresolved tensions that simmer beneath the surface. Left unchecked, it can lead to disengagement, burnout, and a toxic work environment.

Signs of unhealthy conflict include:

  • Personal attacks: The focus shifts from the issue at hand to blaming or attacking individuals.
  • Avoidance: Team members may withdraw from conversations or meetings to avoid confrontation.
  • Dysfunctional relationships: Trust deteriorates, and collaboration breaks down, leading to lower productivity.

According to a study by Workplace Conflict Resolution, unresolved conflict costs Australian businesses billions of dollars each year, often due to absenteeism, turnover, and decreased performance. It’s clear that ignoring these issues can have serious financial and cultural consequences.

How Leaders Can Foster Healthy Conflict

Leaders play a crucial role in creating an environment where healthy conflict can thrive. Here are some practical strategies to encourage constructive disagreement and avoid destructive tension:

  1. Promote Open Communication: Encourage team members to voice their opinions in a respectful and open manner. Establishing ground rules for discussions can help ensure that everyone feels safe speaking up.
  2. Focus on Issues, Not Personalities: Keep the conversation centred on the problem or idea, not on personal attacks or criticisms. This helps maintain trust and keeps the discussion productive.
  3. Model Healthy Conflict: Leaders should demonstrate how to engage in healthy conflict themselves. By actively listening and valuing diverse perspectives, they set the tone for the entire team.
  4. Prioritise Resolving Tensions: Address conflicts as they arise. The longer tensions go unaddressed, the more likely they are to become unhealthy.
  5. Provide Conflict Resolution Training: Equip your team with the skills to handle disagreements constructively. Training in emotional intelligence and communication can go a long way in fostering a culture of healthy conflict.

The Long-Term Benefits

When teams learn to manage conflict in a healthy way, the benefits are substantial:

  • Higher engagement: Employees feel valued and heard, leading to increased motivation and involvement.
  • Improved decision-making: Diverse perspectives lead to more thorough discussions, which can produce better outcomes.
  • Stronger relationships: When conflict is resolved constructively, trust and collaboration improve, resulting in a more cohesive team.

According to research by Gallup, highly engaged teams show 21% greater profitability and are more resilient in the face of challenges. Healthy conflict plays a key role in driving that engagement and fostering a thriving workplace culture.

Conclusion

Conflict doesn’t have to be a negative force in the workplace. When managed properly, it can lead to growth, innovation, and better team outcomes. By fostering a culture of healthy conflict, leaders can ensure that their teams are resilient, engaged, and equipped to face challenges head-on.

Are you encouraging healthy conflict in your workplace? Or is unhealthy tension holding your team back? It’s never too late to take steps toward building a culture of open, constructive dialogue.

References:

Centre for Creative Leadership. “Conflict Shouldn’t Be Avoided, It Should Be Managed.” https://www.ccl.org/articles/leading-effectively-articles/conflict-shouldnt-be-avoided-it-should-be-managed/

Workplace Conflict Resolution. “Conflict Costs Australian Businesses Billions.” https://www.workplaceconflictresolution.com.au/

Gallup. “The Right Culture: Not Employee Satisfaction, But Employee Engagement Drives Performance.” https://www.gallup.com/workplace/236366/right-culture-not-employee-satisfaction-driving-engagement.aspx

Sommer Nisbit

Principal Consultant - navigating change, empowering leaders, optimising workplaces

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